
There’s one place in particular where Japanese people aren’t just not polite, they’re downright rude.
Around the world, Japanese people are seen as kind, quiet, and above all, polite. While that’s true in many cases, especially when it comes to being served by those working in the customer service industry, it’s not always the case in everyday situations, and shining a light on the issue is Japanese Twitter user Arisa, who goes by @0smxUBZWd2MYRV3 online.
According to Arisa, Japanese people can be incredibly rude, and she’s seen it all firsthand as she works as a cash register clerk in Japan. She says it’s a stressful job, as she has to deal with people being rude to her day in and day out, and to top it all off, there’s nothing she can say or do about it, as her role in the customer service industry requires her to be courteous while smiling and bowing politely to them regardless.
▼ Behind the smile and the “Irasshaimase!” (“Welcome!“) there’s a person with feelings.
Arisa recently took to Twitter to vent her frustrations, posting a thread that began with this tweet.
ちょっと愚痴
— アリサ🐾 (@arisa_3158) January 12, 2020
私レジ打ちの仕事してるんだけどさ
態度悪い客があまりに多い
なんていうかもう人としてアウトな客が本当に多い
日本人は礼儀正しいは嘘だって接客してるとよくわかる
客の3〜4割が態度悪いのは流石にストレス溜まる
もう義務教育で人との接し方を学ばせないとヤバいと思う
The tweet above reads:
“I have a bit of a complaint.
I work at the cash register, but you know what?
There are way too many customers who have bad manners.
What I mean is, there’s really a lot of customers who are unacceptable as people.
When you serve customers, you’ll know all too well that it’s a lie to say Japanese people are polite.
With 30-40 percent of customers having bad manners, the stress on me is piling up.
I think it’s really terrible that they don’t make people learn how to interact with others during compulsory education at schools.”
She followed that tweet with another one, which reads:
“I’m really surprised at the large number of customers who don’t say anything and just run off after snatching their change or receipt in an intimidating way.
Store clerks are human beings??
I’m disheartened every day because Japanese cultural standards have dropped this low.”
終始無言で威圧的でお釣りやレシートを奪う様に取って去っていく客が本当に多くてびっくりする
— アリサ🐾 (@arisa_3158) January 12, 2020
店員って人間だよ??
日本人の民度ってここまで低いのかよって日々げんなりしてる
Rather than just complain about the situation, though, Arisa is attempting to improve things by educating everyone with some tips on how to act as a customer.
“It’s fine to not say anything.
I don’t feel bad at all if you give a tiny nod or use gestures to respond to my questions. [regarding how the customer wants to pay or if they want a bag, for example]
This is like the least you can do as a person.”
“Before the clerk uses the register, say ‘onegai shimasu’. [This phrase is commonly used to mean “please” in Japan]
When the clerk asks you things like ‘Do you have a point card?’ say something properly, like ‘No, I don’t.’
Finally, when you’re given your change say ‘thank you’.
It’s all pretty straightforward but it’s something only about 10 percent of customers can do.”
▼ At this point, a smile wouldn’t cost you anything either.
Arisa’s comments resonated with a large number of people in Japan, who supported her tale with comments like:
“Japanese people are kind to foreigners but strict with Japanese people.”
“Elderly male customers tend to be the worst. Surprisingly, young people are polite.”
“Ten years ago, as a student, I worked as a cashier at a supermarket, and the overwhelming majority of middle-aged men and women were rude.”
“I also worked on the register when I was a student and I was shocked by the way customers treated me.”
“I hate how there’s no vertical relationship in the service industry in Japan — customers are above and cashiers are below.”
“So many customers act like god, but not a kind one.”
It’s true that the customer is god in the eyes of the Japanese service industry. But that doesn’t give them a free pass to forget the fact that, at the end of the day, they and the person serving them are both really human beings with feelings.
So next time you’re at the register in Japan — or anywhere else in the world for that matter — don’t forget a little courtesy can go a long way towards making a cashier’s day just that little bit brighter. That really shouldn’t be too hard in Japan, though, where customers ought to be more appreciative of the remarkable Japanese art of giving and receiving change.
Source: Jin
Featured image: Pakutaso
Insert images: Pakutaso (1, 2, 3)
● Want to hear about SoraNews24’s latest articles as soon as they’re published? Follow us on Facebook and Twitter!




Two incredibly important phrases to remember when shopping in Japan
Five important manners to remember when buying something at a Japanese convenience store
Who has better manners? Blogger lists three things foreigners do that impress even the Japanese
25 ways Japanese politeness can get on the nerves of Japanese people
A piece of Japanese business manners that many Japanese people could do without
Japanese beef bowl chain Sukiya’s 2026 Smile Box lucky bag basically pays for itself
Hayao Miyazaki says Happy New Year to Studio Ghibli fans with new art for Year of the Horse
Japanese restaurant chain installs tip boxes in response to foreign tourists leaving tips, sparks debate
What did Shibuya really look like after the crowds on New Year’s Day?
Coca-Cola Japan unveils new sakura design bottle for cherry blossom season 2019
Starbucks on a Shinkansen bullet train platform: 6 tips for using the automated store in Japan
7-Eleven Japan’s ramen-cooking robot whipped us up a bowl of noodles【Taste test】
Tokyo travel hack: How to enjoy a free sightseeing boat tour around Tokyo Bay
Nara asks visitors to stop feeding the deer
We hung out at one of Tokyo’s most popular pickup spots, drank our hearts out and met many men
Starbucks Japan ready to get Year of the Horse started with adorable drinkware and plushies【Pics】
7 great places to see Mt. Fuji from without having to climb it
We found possibly the quietest Japanese-style hotel in Tokyo’s bustling Shinjuku district
Cup Noodle tries an authentic Jiro-style ramen, but something’s not quite right
Hello Kitty Choco Egg figures are an adorable trip through three periods of Japanese pop culture【Pics】
Japan’s oldest largetooth sawfish in captivity back on display in Mie Prefecture
Cyberpunk anime meets traditional culture in Ghost in the Shell gold leaf Japanese changing screens
The best Starbucks Japan Frappuccinos we want to drink again in 2026
We revisited Sweets Paradise after a decade to see if Japan’s dessert buffet still delivers
7-Eleven Japan starts new temporary luggage storage service in over 300 branches
Disillusionment at Tsukiji’s tourist-target prices led us to a great ramen restaurant in Tokyo
Starbucks teams up with 166-year-old Kyoto doll maker for Year of the Horse decorations【Photos】
Tokyo considering law requiring more trash cans following litter increase in heavily touristed area
Tokyo’s Tsukiji sushi neighborhood asks tour groups to stay away for the rest of the month
Tokyo event lets you travel back in time, for free, to celebrate 100 years since Showa era start
Sanrio theme park in Japan announces plans to expand into a Sanrio resort
Japan may add Japanese language proficiency, lifestyle classes to permanent foreign resident requirements
Stamina-destroying “Paralysis Noodles” are Tokyo’s newest over-the-top ramen innovation
Survey asks foreign tourists what bothered them in Japan, more than half gave same answer
Japan’s human washing machines will go on sale to general public, demos to be held in Tokyo
Japan’s deadliest food claims more victims, but why do people keep eating it for New Year’s?
We deeply regret going into this tunnel on our walk in the mountains of Japan
Studio Ghibli releases Kodama forest spirits from Princess Mononoke to light up your home
Major Japanese hotel chain says reservations via overseas booking sites may not be valid
Put sesame oil in your coffee? Japanese maker says it’s the best way to start your day【Taste test】
No more using real katana for tourism activities, Japan’s National Police Agency says
Starbucks Japan reveals new sakura drinkware collection, inspired by evening cherry blossoms
Updated cherry blossom forecast shows extra-long sakura season for Japan this year
Why is Japanese customer service so amazing? Because in Japan it’s one strike and you’re out
The five least stressful jobs, as ranked by Japanese working people
Foreigner disappointed by Japan’s hazy concept of “work ending times,” so are Japanese people
W.T.F. Japan: Top 5 crazy awesome features of Japanese restaurants 【Weird Top Five】
Japanese manners debate: Is it OK to tell your coworkers “I’ve found a new job?”
Leave a Reply