Stimulate your mind and your appetite with a four-course meal of Japanese linguistics, culture, and spicy curry.

In all languages, there are words that have multiple meanings. For example, in English “right” can mean a direction (“Turn right at the corner”), that something is correct (“That’s the right answer”), or that the freedom to perform an action (“You have the right to wear Pokémon underwear, even if it’s not what everyone would choose to do.”).

This doesn’t cause serious problems as long as the various meanings are different enough from one another that it’s easy to tell which is intended by context. But things get tricky with the Japanese word daijoubu, which can mean both “yes” and “no.”

▼ “You lied to me, Casey. You told me the Japanese language doesn’t hate me, but it does, doesn’t it?”

Located in Tokyo’s Suginami Ward, Salam Namaste serves authentic Nepalese and Indian cuisine. However, the restaurant’s Twitter account (@salamnamaste01) also occasionally dishes up linguistic debates, and a recent series of surveys shows that the meaning of daijoubu can be hard to pin down.

Each survey starts with a theoretical Nepalese person asking a question, in Japanese, to a Japanese person, with their response each time being “Daijoubu.” The Salam Namaste account then asked other Twitter users to vote on whether this daijoubu would translate to “Yes” or “No,” and got widely varying results.

1. “Can you eat another piece of nan bread?”
“Daijoubu.”
This daijoubu means “Yes:” 19 percent of respondents
It means “No:”63 percent
Unsure: 18 percent

2. “Can you eat spicy curry?”
“Daijoubu.”
Yes: 86 percent
No: 9 percent
Unsure: 5 percent

3. “Can you eat a large piece of nan?”
“Daijoubu.”
Yes: 80 percent
No: 12 percen
Unsure: 8 percent

4. “Salam Namaste’s nan is gigantic, but can you eat another piece?”
“Daijoubu.”
Yes: 57 percent
No: 31 percent
Unsure: 12 percent

▼ We will now pause as everyone goes out to pick up curry and nan.

Even though no interpretation was unanimous, the chance of daijoubu being taken to mean “yes” ranged all the way from 86 percent in question 2 down to just 19 percent in question 1. So what gives? Are small portions and subtle flavors such strong characteristics of traditional Japanese cuisine that the language simply isn’t equipped with the means to discuss portion sizes and spiciness levels?

Rest assured that those topics are possible, but there are some quirks of spoken Japanese that can make the intended meaning of the surveys’ daijoubu hard to hash out. First off, if you were going to translate daijoubu directly, it wouldn’t translate as “yes” or “no,” but as “OK.” Where the problem comes up is in determining who, or what, and in what way, is “OK.”

As we talked about in discussing this idol fan who was perhaps telling his favorite performer he looked forward to seeing her thighs again someday, in Japanese, especially spoken Japanese, it’s common to omit entire words if the speaker thinks they can be inferred from context. For example, if you say to your friend “I read an article on SoraNews24 on my phone while taking a poop,” they might respond with “Nani wo yonda no?”, literally “What did read?”, omitting the “you” since that information follows from the last sentence (They might also say “Dude, don’t tell me what you do on the toilet,” but that’s a topic for another time).

Since we now know the actual meaning of daijoubu is “OK,” let’s look at the questions again.

1. “Can you eat another piece of nan bread?”
“Daijoubu.”
(Yes: 19 percent, No:63 percent, Unsure: 18 percent)

Most people (63 percent) took this daijoubu as “no,” with the ostensible logic that this daijoubu is a way of saying “I’m OK.” If you were hungry, that would be a problem, and you wouldn’t be daijoubu, so if you ARE daijoubu, it means that you’re full, and thus can’t eat another piece of nan.

But what about the 19 percent who think daijoubu here means yes? That would be the endpoint for the train of thought “I want to eat another piece of nan [maybe because it tastes so good], so if I were so stuffed I couldn’t eat another bite, that would be a problem. But I don’t have that problem – I’m daijoubu, so yes, I  can eat another.”

So if they’ve both got a certain logic to them, why was “no” the more common interpretation? It’s likely got something to do with Japanese culture’s tendency for earnestness, since the “yes” interpretation requires a bit of facetiousness by treating being full as a bad thing.

2. “Can you eat spicy curry?”
“Daijoubu.”
(Yes: 86 percent, No:9 percent, Unsure: 5 percent)

This question had the least deviation in interpretations, and it’s pretty easy to see why. Being presented with food you can’t eat would be a problem, so whether you’re saying you’re daijoubu or spicy curry is daijoubu, it sounds like you can eat it.

▼ Mmmm….good curry.

So why the smattering of “no” interpretations? Probably a case of thinking an extra step ahead, and also Japanese society’s emphasis on hospitality. If someone is asking you if you can eat spicy curry, there’s a pretty good chance that they’re thinking of cooking some and serving it to you for your dining pleasure. But if you can’t eat spicy curry, you might gently turn down their offer by saying “I’m OK without any spicy curry,” implying that you can’t/won’t eat it.

3. “Can you eat a large piece of nan?”
“Daijoubu.”
(Yes: 80 percent, No: 12 percent, Unsure: 8 percent)

This is pretty much the same scenario as question 2, and once again, “yes” is the overwhelmingly most common interpretation. There’s a little bit more uncertainty here than when we were talking about spicy curry, though, probably because the ability to eat spicy foods is often thought of as a binary thing: if you can handle the amount of heat, it doesn’t matter how much of it you eat, and if it’s too hot for you, even a mouthful is too much. For question 3, though, we’re talking about nan, a buttery bread that pretty much everyone thinks is tasty and is no way intimidating.

▼ Someone probably just asked this kid if she wanted some nan.

But wait, doesn’t this sort of contradict the interpreting for question 1, where most people thought saying daijoubu to “Can you eat another piece of nan?” meant “No?” Kind of, but there’s a key difference here. The offer of a second piece, essentially a refill, is asking the customer if they’d like some sort of special treatment, so daijoubu is likely to come across as “I’m OK, I don’t need a second piece,” or “That’s OK, you don’t have to give me a second piece.”

In question 3, though, we’re presumably talking about the first piece of nan, so “Can you eat a large piece of nan?” implies that the chef has already prepared it, or perhaps that that’s how the restaurant always makes its nan. However, Japan doesn’t always follow the philosophy that bigger is better, and so a server saying that their restaurant’s nan is unusually large might almost be seen as an apology for its abnormality, and if so daijoubu is likely meant as “I’m OK with your unusually big nan” or “It’s OK, you don’t have to go to the trouble of making a smaller piece of nan just for me.”

4. “Salam Namaste’s nan is gigantic, but can you eat another piece?”
“Daijoubu.”
(Yes: 57 percent, No:31 percent, Unsure: 12 percent)

Finally, we come to the most divisive daijoubu, because it’s also the most complex set of circumstances. It’s basically combining question 1, offering another piece, and question 3, offering a larger-than-normal piece, with the added wrinkle that it’s being explicitly stated that that’s how this restaurant makes its nan.

In the end, “yes” won out as the most common interpretation, once again probably due to traditional Japanese values of humility and considerateness. The server is admitting that the restaurant’s food is different than what people probably expect/are used to, and reassuring them that “I’m OK with eating gigantic nan”/”Gigantic nan is OK” would be a considerate thing to do. At the same time, most people probably don’t need two gigantic pieces of nan, so wanting to let the server know “I’m OK without another piece”/”It’s OK, you don’t need to give me another” is also a definite possibility, resulting in the narrowest yes/no split out of the four questions.

If all this has you not only craving curry and nan but also apprehensive about trying to communicate in Japanese, you can take some comfort in knowing that while Salam Namaste’s Japanese-language questions are grammatically sound, they’re a little different from how native Japanese speakers would phrase things. Instead of “Can you eat a second serving?”, a native Japanese server would probably ask “Would you like a second serving?” In that case daijoubu would almost unanimously be taken to mean “no,” since “I’m OK, I don’t need another serving” makes sense, while “That’s OK, I want another serving” is an awkward way to try to get your point across. Likewise, you’re more likely to be asked “This dish is spicy, but is that OK?”, where pretty much everyone would interpret daijoubu as meaning you’re comfortble with spicy food, and not just “Can you eat spicy food?”

In closing, while yes, Japanese can be complicated, it’s not an impossible language to communicate in, and it’s not like daily life in Japan is a never-ending cycle of piles of unwanted nan and punishingly spicy curry.

So don’t worry, it’s gonna be daijoubu!

Related: Salam Namaste website (Tabelog)
Source: Twitter/@salamnamaste01 via Jin
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